Dear Editor:

I was recently alerted by friends to view the NJ.com Internet Forum because there were posts on it that ridiculed the tragic death of my brother, Travis. For those who may not know, on September 5, 1989, Travis and his friend were killed in a car accident involving a train. While it is nearly 20 years since that solemn day, anyone who has suffered such a loss will agree that the gut-wrenching pain experienced when anyone loses a child-or a sibling-is one that dulls, but never goes away.

I find it appalling that three "bloggers," who had referenced themselves as firemen in past posts, would stoop to a level so utterly low. While these particular posts have since been deleted, they were so heartless and hurtful that the damage they inflicted remains.

Some examples of the posts aimed at my father, Dennis Elwell, were: "Denny, last train out," "Denny is a train wreck," "Choo-choo," "Chuga-chuga," "all aboard," warnings to "look both ways," and the lowest blow being a You Tube video of two men being killed when their vehicle is hit by a train at a railroad crossing, which closely depicts my brother's accident .These posts are clearly political assaults that are designed to upset my father.

While he is used to taking political punches (and asked that I not respond to them), I can't let it go because these punches are outside the political arena. They stab the hearts of my entire family and desecrate Travis' memory. The cowards anonymously blogging these messages are most likely campaigning for my father's political foes, and while I understand that mudslinging in the political arena can be expected from some, these references to my late brother's death go far beyond any limit of decency. Travis' tragic demise has no place in any political race.

The political process should be an exchange of ideas. Criticism is expected, differences should be debated. That’s how campaigns should be run and won. I urge those who seek to challenge my father in the political arena to speak to their followers and stop this insidious and destructive harassment and let my brother rest in peace.

To those who seek to be the leaders of Secaucus, I ask you to reign in your followers-these "bloggers" that are posting on your behalf-and lead. Speak to your people and let them know that you are above this type of campaign and that you find this type of behavior despicable because it benefits no one and reflects poorly on everyone involved.

Sincerely,

Alexis Elwell-Serringer